Frequently Asked Questions About Giving Up Your Baby For Adoption
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What is an adoption plan?
An adoption plan in an outline of your wishes for the adoption. It includes your plans to pursue an open, semi-open or closed adoption and a variety of other factors. We will work with you to create an adoption plan that is perfect for you and your child.
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Will I be able to see my baby after he or she is born?
Absolutely! It is entirely up to you if you would like to see your child after they are born. No one can stop you from seeing your child. If you do not want to see your baby, we will work with you to ensure the hospital staff is aware of this and respects your wishes.
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As the birth mom, does it cost me anything to give up my baby for adoption?
No, it does not cost you anything to place your baby for adoption. The service is 100% free for you. In most instances, you will qualify to receive financial assistance to cover your medical and living expenses.
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Am I obligated to place my baby for adoption if i change my mind at any time during the process, even after giving birth?
You are never obligated to give up your baby for adoption before he or she is born. Even if you have accepted financial assistance from a prospective adoptive family, you are not obligated to place your baby for adoption. Prospective adoptive families know this as well. The only time you are required to place your child for adoption is after you give birth AND you have signed legal papers terminating your rights as the parent. States have different time frames as to when you can sign termination papers. In most states, you cannot sign termination papers until 24-72 hours after giving birth.
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Will I get to see or hear form my child after the adoption is over?
This will depend on the type of adoption plan you and the adoptive parents have agreed to. This depends on whether you have an open, semi-open or closed adoption. If you have an open or semi-open adoption, you can create an adoption plan that includes receiving pictures and or having visits. Requesting an open or semi-open adoption is the best way to remain in contact. If you do not desire any contact at all, you may want to consider a closed adoption.
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How do I know what type of family to choose?
We will work with you to help you choose the perfect family for your child.
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Where do I find a family to adopt to my baby?
We will walk you through the process of finding a family to adopt your baby.
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How do I know the adoptive family will love my child as their own?
Adoptive parents can love their adopted children just like they would their biological children. They do not treat the child any different because he or she is adopted.
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What rights does the birth father have?
Birth father rights vary from state to state. Contact us for information about your specific state.
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Why do women consider placing their own baby for adoption?
There are a variety of reasons that a woman may give up her baby for adoption. While every situation is unique, some of the reasons include, lack of resources to care for a child, not feeling ready to parent a child, already a parent and feeling overwhelmed by current parenting responsibilities, mental or physical health concerns, having a child right now does not line up with your future plans, a desire to give the gift of parenthood to a family who cannot have biological children.
It depends on the situation. Adoption laws vary from state to state. Please contact us for details on your specific state.
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What happens if the father of my baby disagrees with my decision to give up the baby for adoption?
Birth father rights vary from state to state. You may still be able to pursue an adoption without his consent. It is best to contact us for details on your specific state.
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Is adoption temporary or permanent?
Placing your child for adoption is permanent. You cannot sign parental termination papers until after you have given birth to the baby. After you sign the papers, the adoption is permanent and you cannot get the child back. Therefore, it best to be sure about your decision before moving forward with an adoption.
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When do I have to give my baby to the adoptive parents?
Most times this happens at the hospital after you have the baby. You will not be alone and there will be a counselor there to support you. If you are not ready to place your baby with the adoptive parents just yet, you can take your baby home or place him or her with another caring adult until you are ready to give them to the adoptive family.
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Will I be able to say goodbye to my baby?
You will have the option to say goodbye to your baby. Sometimes this is very difficult to do. Therefore, you also have the option to not see the baby at all. It is entirely up to you.
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Will I regret giving up my baby for my adaption?
There is a possibility that you will regret your decision. However, many birth moms say that while it was a hard decision, it was the best decision for them and their baby. They feel good about being able to give their baby a better life.
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Do I have to tell anyone that i gave my baby up for my adoption?
If you are of legal age (18) you do not have to tell anyone that you have placed your child for adoption? If you are a minor, (under 18), there may be special considerations. Because laws vary by state it is best to call us and inquire about your specific state if you are a minor.
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Will I have an attorney?
Most states require that you have a lawyer to represent your best interests. If you live in a state that does not require legal representation, you are still entitled to have one if you desire. You do not have to pay for any legal representation.
